On A Date with Neha Dhupia : Bollywood News

DP: Do you know that men really fantasise about you?

ND: Oh really? Fantasise is a really big word yaar. So now, can you spell the word out please?

DP: No, I wont. And thats such a stupid question anyway.

ND: You called me stupid and so theres a minus five for you again. Youre doing really bad here.

DP: Oh yeah! But you do sound like a cat here. Are you someone not to be trusted, like a cat?

ND: No, Im not a cat and I hate pets. I think they should be out in the open and not in the house.

DP: But there are people who love their pets like their family. So why do you say that?

ND: Well, Im just giving my opinion. There are always two sides to everything.

DP: When you friends go out or meet up, do you talk about getting laid and all?

ND: No, never ever. I dont even know what youre talking about. Can we please go to the next question? (Laughs)

DP: You like being clicked?

ND: I like being photographed but I dont like bad pictures. I dont know where to draw the line but thats how it is.

DP: What if you were to be clicked not by a photographer but by your boyfriend or a man with whom you are going to get married, what would be that picture which you would want him to click?

ND: A nice genuine smile. Sometimes a smile is really not genuine and its a moment you need to capture and not a photograph.

DP: People have liked your smile, your height, your body. But I want to know something that you like about yourself.

ND: The fact that I am very real is what I like. What you see is what you get. I know how to have fun. You throw me in any situation and Ill have fun. All the rest of the materialistic things are temporary. I used to love my hair two years ago and now I dont care. Im really funny.

DP: Can a one night stand get funnier?

ND: It doesnt get funnier than Raat Gayi Baat Gayi. I promise you that it is really funny for the ones who are watching and not for the four people who are involved in the film.

DP: Has your ego ever over powered yourself to such an extent that it has made matters worse?

ND: Im sure it has. Ego is such a misleading emotion because it makes you do the wrong things and makes you believe that its the right thing to do. Relationships arent about ego. There is a logical and an illogical side to love. Love is about being illogical, its about thinking from your heart and being with someone because that person wants you, lets you and makes you do crazy things. I have fallen a victim of ego many times but I am not scared of apologising. My temper is like a soda bottle. It goes fizzy and within minutes I calm down. Im not vindictive as a person.

DP: What can go bizarrely wrong on a date?

ND: The food. A lot of times people dont give importance to the food and for me, if youve got to take me out on a date, youve got to make sure its fine dining or even if its raste ka khana, it has to be delicious food. Im a foodie and Im not a girl who is shy of eating.

DP: What if a man can cook for you?

ND: I think thats fantastic.

DP: Whats more sexier in a relationship? Having a shower with your man or massaging him?

ND: Oh oh! Its a bit of an out-there kind of a question. I dont think I can answer this one.

DP: Well, it has to be in there, not out there.

ND: Im sorry but I cant answer this.

DP: You fall for a guy, you make up, then you break up and then fall for another one and the life goes on. How important is it to be in and out and in of any relationship?

ND: Its not a matter of importance. This is a way of life. You have to give it a shot, dont you? You never get into a relationship thinking that itll end soon or youll marry someone the next day. Its about trial and error. For me, its a gradual progression.